The Lived Experiences and Well-Being of Female Partners Following Discovery or Disclosure of Their Male Partner's Compulsive Sexual Behaviours: An Australian Phenomenological Study
Sexuality Research and Social Policy, Vol.22, pp.1339-1366
2025
IntroductionThere has been an upsurge of research articles in the last two decades about sexual addiction (SA) and compulsive sexual behaviour (CSB). In the literature, SA/CSB is mainly presented as comparable to other behavioural addictions and similarly involves a problematic consumption model: loss of control, psychosocial impairments, and risky sexual activities. Despite this recent rise in research interest in this area, only a small number of studies have focused on the partners' lived experiences and well-being.MethodsThis qualitative descriptive phenomenological investigation aimed to examine female partners' lived experiences and well-being following the discovery or disclosure of their male partners' SA/CSB. Individual in-depth semi-structured interviews were conducted (2020-2022) with primary participants (female partners; n = 12) and supplementary participants (counsellors; n = 15).ResultsThe analysis reveals that this group has encountered several detrimental consequences of CSB-associated betrayal trauma (BT), including but not limited to suicidal thoughts and self-harm, compulsive self-comparisons with other women, physical and behavioural difficulties, and diminished self-esteem.ConclusionsThis empirical research is the first study in Australia to examine the voices and experiences of female partners upon learning of their mates' CSBs. The findings contribute to the field of SA/CSB and enhance understanding of the multifarious consequences for the emotional, physical, sexual, spiritual and/or relational well-being of intimate female partners and their general outlook on life.Policy ImplicationsBased on the results, there are strong indications with implications for policy that this population requires validation and multifaceted support systems to better navigate the challenging, complex, and stressful processes of discovery/disclosure and subsequent recovery.ConclusionsThis empirical research is the first study in Australia to examine the voices and experiences of female partners upon learning of their mates' CSBs. The findings contribute to the field of SA/CSB and enhance understanding of the multifarious consequences for the emotional, physical, sexual, spiritual and/or relational well-being of intimate female partners and their general outlook on life.Policy ImplicationsBased on the results, there are strong indications with implications for policy that this population requires validation and multifaceted support systems to better navigate the challenging, complex, and stressful processes of discovery/disclosure and subsequent recovery.ConclusionsThis empirical research is the first study in Australia to examine the voices and experiences of female partners upon learning of their mates' CSBs. The findings contribute to the field of SA/CSB and enhance understanding of the multifarious consequences for the emotional, physical, sexual, spiritual and/or relational well-being of intimate female partners and their general outlook on life.Policy ImplicationsBased on the results, there are strong indications with implications for policy that this population requires validation and multifaceted support systems to better navigate the challenging, complex, and stressful processes of discovery/disclosure and subsequent recovery.
- The Lived Experiences and Well-Being of Female Partners Following Discovery or Disclosure of Their Male Partner's Compulsive Sexual Behaviours: An Australian Phenomenological Study
- Fakri Seyed Aghamiri - Alphacrucis University CollegeJohannes M. Luetz (Corresponding Author) - University of the Sunshine Coast, Queensland, School of Law and SocietyKarenne Hills - Alphacrucis University College
- Sexuality Research and Social Policy, Vol.22, pp.1339-1366
- Springer
- 2025
- 10.1007/s13178-024-01043-x
- 1553-6610
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- The research data are not publicly available because participants were informed prior to in-depth interviews that their data would be stored securely and confidentially.
- School of Law and Society
- English
- 991083398202621
- Journal article
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